Everything I Never Told You

Everything I Never Told You by Celeste Ng
Celeste Ng
Star Rating
★★★★★
Reviewer's Rating
Feb 20, 2023

It’s the 1970s, in a small Ohio town. The Lee family’s daughter, Lydia, is dead.



Lydia, the oldest daughter of Marilyn and James Lee, a mixed-race Chinese-Caucasian couple.

As their ostensibly favorite child, her parents have placed pressure on her so they can live

vicariously through what they missed out on. Marilyn wants Lydia to achieve her dreams of

becoming a doctor, however much pressure it will take. James doesn’t want Lydia to experience

the childhood he did, constantly excluded from everything, so he pressures her to be popular. He

knows what it’s like to be different and doesn’t want that for his daughter. And Lydia herself

can’t refuse her parents, not after THAT summer.



However, her parents’ favoritism comes at the expense of their other kids.

Nath, Lydia’s older brother, has spent his entire life with the spotlight away from him, and can’t

wait to be free and go to college. Being Lydia’s only support system, he’s unaware of the

important role he plays in her life. But resentment against everyone is building up too quickly for

him to bear staying in this home for longer.



Hannah, meanwhile, is the youngest daughter. The one keeping everyone together, but also the

one everyone seems to forget about. However, her keen eye makes her the most emotionally

intelligent.



This family drama highlights the conditions in the family before and after Lydia’s death, as each

member grapples with what they did wrong and what they could’ve done. The family dynamics

and relationships (James-Marilyn, Lydia-Marilyn, Lydia-Nath, and Nath-James) were also so

well written. Ng has a way of writing her characters, that, while you may not agree with them

and their decisions, you can sympathize with them. Her prose is gifted and I love how this book

tackles the family’s battles with racism, sexism, and the American Dream. I also like how she

wrote out James’ and Marilyn’s backstories, because that just added to her characters so much

more. This was such an emotional and profound story, and I recommend it to everyone. 5/5.

 

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